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Article Surfing ArchiveSocial Skills For Kids ~ How To Stop Your Kids From Buying Friends - Articles SurfingIf your child buys friends, she definitely needs social skills. As the parent, you can coach your child to make true friends with the simple social skills that build character too. Recently, I received an email from a psychologist who works with kids. She wrote, 'One problem I would like to see addressed is when children try and win friends by giving them gifts.' What a great topic! Below are some questions to ask and 3 parenting tips to share. Parenting Questions: I suggest that you sit down with your kids. Talk about making friends and ask these 3 questions to get them thinking. First - 'How could buying friendships with candy and gifts be an insult to the giver?' Second - 'If kids like a person because of their gifts, how good are those friendships?' Third ' 'Would you like some secrets to making real friends?' If your child answers 'Yes' to the third question, Pick out some social skills your child needs. Practice one a week. Consider using the following social skills. First Social Skill Parenting Tip: Tell your child, 'Act happy and say, 'Hi,' when you see your friends. Your friends will feel great and so will you. Let's role play this social skill right now. Then practice this skill during the week and let me know the results.' Imagine the joy when you see your child smile at her friends. Being friendly is so important. Kids will seek her out. Second Social Skill Parenting Tip: Advise your child to 'Repeat what your friends say in your own words. This will show you really listened. Your friend will love your attention. Let's make up some typical situations and role play this skill. Then practice it with other kids this week and tell me the results.' If your child is younger, have her just repeat the last few words. This will keep her friends on track if they get distracted. They'll like her for it too. Third Social Skill Parenting Tip: Remind your child to 'Smile when you talk. Smiling helps you look friendly. Smiles show that you like your friends. Smiles relax you inside and give you a happy feeling. Let's pretend I'm one of your friends and let's practice smiling while we talk. Next, practice this skill with your friends and let me know the results.' People who smile when they talk have an extra gift. They automatically put others at ease. Their smiles assure others they won't reject them. Who wouldn't want a smiling friend? Thank you to the psychologist who asked for this topic. I hope you can use these tips. I also hope they help all parents who want their kids to make true friends. Social Skill Conclusion: Many kids don't know how to make friends. They may be shy, bully other kids, brag, or just feel awkward. As the parent, you have the opportunity to coach them. If you do, you'll be giving them an important skill for life. You'll be building character too.
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