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Article Surfing ArchiveThree Key Behaviors That Determine Your Success - Articles SurfingSuccess is a journey and along the way, we need to correctour course by unlearning the behavior that derails us andinvite in a new behavior to continue our success. If youfeel you want to change your success, take a measure of yourcurrent key behaviors. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Active listening requires us to set aside our own agenda,uses our best internal language skills, and takes presentenergy. The best gift to yourself and to your speaker if theenergy isn't available is to say so. Yet, due to theperception management masks we've learned from society, wedon't usually provide this honest feedback. So, wepassively listen, like pretending, as a child, to hear, andsay something quick, something we think they want to hear,just so we can move on. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Feel your power. It is a powerful resource to success. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We've been listening to ourselves talk for so long, we havejust learned to hear past it. The noise of our innerdialogue can usually and can only be heard if its screaming or ifsomeone points it out. This discussion is telling us what we need, how we want it,and what we will and will not do in order to get it. Weassume, we don't know what we want, until we begin tolisten. Until we begin to stop long enough to ask what itis that our internal dialogue wants or needs. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ (c) Copyright, Catherine Franz, 2003, 2004. All rights reserved.
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