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Let's imagine that the society laws, concerning forbidden women's sexual freedom, are destroyed. It becomes acceptable for women to have many lovers. What picture would we have? Would most of women use the chance to have many lovers if there is no judgment in the society? Would it be obvious that women as well as men are polygamists? I think not. Recently, I saw the film 'Seeing other people'. That film strictly points the differences between a woman and a man. There is a young engaged couple, Ed and Ellis, which makes a deal to feel free to have sex with others before the marriage. The initiative comes from the girl. She wants to have sex with many men, be wild and crazy. But what does she get? Ellis starts to date with the guy she sleeps with and her flirt turns into another relationship. She tends to monogamy anyway. And what about her fianc'? Ed is more closely to the results the young woman tended.

Women are arranged in more complicated way as men are. Women tend to love and strong, long relationships. And it is supposable they have the right to have many lovers. Through the women' nature which cannot be easily forgotten or destroyed, they would begin to build deep relationships with their lovers. Relationships which sooner or later would lead to love. And it isn't possible ' to love as many persons as you have as lovers. Men are more primitive in this ' they just flirt, have sex, spread the seed'

You may ask, what about those women who had many lovers during their lives. Well, I can explain this. I think that those women just were looking for the one who they could give themselves, from whom they'd bear children (as it's the main purpose of a woman). And while they were in the search and at the same time, being sexually active, they had lovers. And still it is not the polygamy.

The main stress I want to make that they tend to have many lovers. And it is incorrect to think that women and men have the same equal rights, roles, tasks, purposes in their lives. Men in their nature are polygamists. Their main tasks through all the history was to bring as many children as they were ought to. Many centuries ago it was acceptable to have many wives in order to give rise to descendants. And women, being monogamists, belonged only to one man. And that set of laws was not created unconsciously.

Moreover, social rules in particular are made not because someone somewhere once wanted to make them. They are investigated and now reflect the society. Those dogmas board us with the ruler, helping to live in harmony without distrubing each other.

Let's face clearly; it is not our role to make male-friends our lovers. Sooner or later it'll make us fake. But it's not because most women just hide their polygamy nature and only some of them struggle. No! The idea is that women do not have polygamy features.