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Have you heard about the technique Olympic athletes use to help them win gold medals?

In addition to conventional practice, they do some critical mental work as well. They close their eyes and "see" themselves making the winning basket, being first across the finish line, etc. They "feel" the weight of the medal as it's draped over their necks. They "hear" the roar of the crowd.

What does this have to do with you attracting a good, fun, and faithful man or woman to spend the rest of your life with?

Everything.

You can use this technique, too, to attract a relationship with a man or woman who possesses the qualities you desire (do you know what they are, by the way?).

Here's how to do it:

1. Decide what qualities you desire most in a husband or wife

2. Write them down

3. Construct a scene on paper between you and this person using as much sensory detail (touch, taste, smell, sight, hearing) as you can. (Make sure you write the scene in past or present tense! This is critical!).

Read it out loud three times a day, preferably before your feet touch the floor in the morning, at lunch, and just before you drop off to sleep at night.

Visualize it whenever you have a free moment (while you're on hold, waiting on line at the bank, stuck in traffic, etc.).

As you continue to do this exercise, you will notice that new details will seemingly pop into your scene from nowhere. That's a good sign.

Keep it up.

Before long, you will attract available people with the qualities you desire. What's more, you will be attracted to them, too. Getting dates will become effortless and maintaining a relationship with "the right one" will be blessedly free of angst and drama.

How can I be so sure of this? Well, I used this technique, and it worked for me. After years of disastrous relationships, I attracted and married the man of my dreams. Twelve years later, we're still in love and having fun together.

Go for it!