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The Art of Allowing

Have you been trying and trying to manifest something and it just isn't working? Have you been asking, feeling, visualizing, and everything else that everyone says you're supposed to do, but things still haven't changed?

Well, I have the solution for you! It is the art of allowing yourself to have what you want, a.k.a. the law of detachment.

The art of allowing is all about letting your desires go. It is telling yourself that 'whatever is meant to be will be. If I'm meant to have it, I'll have it. If not, that's okay. All is well.'

Now, the tricky thing with allowing is that it often sounds much easier than it is. As I'm sure you can see. After all, why would you be asking for something if you were okay with never getting it'with things remaining exactly as they are?

Well, let me begin by saying that allowing is not about giving up. You are not giving up on your dreams. Instead, you are acknowledging that everything is okay and it will continue to be so because the Universe has your best interests at heart. To allow is to remember that all you have to do is ask and receive.

Sometimes there are other factors involved in your manifestation. For example, if you are manifesting your dream vacation, I am sure you also want nice weather, great accommodations, kind and helpful people everywhere you go, and so forth. These extra elements also have to be created. And even though you may want your dream vacation right now, however long it takes for everything to come together is the exact amount of time needed to manifest your desire.

Also, remember that every time you begin to have doubts about whether your dream is manifesting, or feel nervous, anxious, or impatient, you are blocking the flow of energy needed to create what you have asked for. It is as if you are cancelling your order for the very thing you want.

Now, of course we all want what we want when we want it. But you cannot look at the lack in your life, at how you still do not have what you want, because in doing so you are merely creating more lack. Instead, you need to look towards what you desire. You need to have faith that all will be well and you will receive what you desire at the appropriate time. The sooner you can come to terms with that, the sooner you will have what you desire.

The more positive, excited, happy, and expectant you feel about something, the more you are allowing it to happen. Your goal is not to stop thinking about what you want, but to feel good whenever you think about it. Simply let go of all doubts about manifesting what you want. Allow it to be.

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